One of the best books I’ve read about personal growth is this. In fact, it’s like a ritual for me to read it before each year starts.
I’ll share few of the laws and insights from the book and if you need it, you can oder for it here.
- The Law of Intentionality – Growth doesn’t just happen. Waking up and sleeping daily might require no much work but personal growth is different.
- The Law of Awareness – You must know yourself to grow yourself. In essence, if your colleague in the office goes for a training on content creation yours might be for public speaking, ending what you know you need.
- The Law of the Mirror – You must see value in yourself to add value to yourself. Don’t you think this might be the reason you’ve not bought those books… you don’t think you deserve it?!
- The Law of Reflection – Learning to pause allows growth to catch up with you. Just think about it.
- The Law of Environment – Growth thrives in conducive surroundings. Your company can inspire growth in you or dissuade you from growing.
- The Law of the Rubber Band – Growth stops when you loose the tension between where you are and where you could be. Hmmm… Are you too comfortable in First Bank that you don’t want to grow again?
- The Law of Tradeoffs – You have to give up to grow up. Anywhere you want to grow, you must be ready to sacrifice something or else…!
- The Law of Modelling – It’s hard to improve when you have no one but yourself to follow. Even self made billionaires receive inspiration from others – dead or alive.
- The Law of the Ladder – Character Growth determines the height of your personal growth.
- The Law of Contribution – Growing yourself enables you to grow others.
Lots of quotes to look at but then we can just look at these:
“A time comes when you need to stop waiting for the man you want to become and start being the man you want to be.” Bruce Springsteen
“No one can produce great things who is not thoroughly sincere in dealing with himself.” James Russell Lowell
“Almost every man wastes part of his life in attempt to display qualities which he does not possess.” Samuel Johnson
“You cannot win if you do not begin. The people who get ahead in the world are the ones who look for the circumstances they want and if they can’t find them they make them.” John Maxwell
“Most of the accomplishments I’ve achieved in life I began to attempt before I was really ready.” John Maxwell
“If you put a small value on yourself rest assured the world will not raise the price.” John Maxwell
“There are things in life that you have to work for and there are things you have to wait for.” Anonymous
“The great composer does not set to work because he is inspired, but becomes inspired because he working.” Ernest Newman
“The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment you first find yourself in.” Mark Caine
“God’s gift to us: potential. Our gift to God: developing it.” Unknown
And now the part I love the most… Better is a wise question than an array of unsolicited answers.
- Do you think you’ll wake up one day in 2020 and notice that you’re a footballer without training?
- Are there TEDx videos you need to listen to as get more insight into public speaking?
- What apps are you downloading for 2020 because you know you need them to grow?
- Do you think the place you live now is inspiring you to dream bigger? What if you begin to spend time at Kilimanjaro restaurant once in a week?
- Who is the best in your field in Lagos or Enugu or in any state in Nigeria?
- Can you book an appointment to meet with the person in 2020?
- Are there personal projects you’ll undertake in 2020 to stretch you beyond your comfort zone? (Open that manuscript again and complete the book…)
- Are there books you need to read in 2020? (Am actually going through that now and into 2020.)
- Are you worth a training of N40,000? If yes, what if you go for a Project Management training in 2020?
- What certification does your organization requires for you to be promoted?
- Who would you want to help grow in 2020? (Remember, wing yourself will help you grow other.)
- What did you fear the most in 2019? How can you break that in 2020?
The truth is this: life does not get better with time and that includes 2020. It only gets better by choice.